THE REFORMED WITNESS HOUR

"Loving the Neighbor"

Rev. Jai Mahtani

(e-mail: Rev. Carl Haak)
June 19, 2005; No. 3259

Dear Radio Friends,

     I am glad to be back with you, and I am back with a question.  My question to you today is, in light of the last two messages on our love for strangers, have you been more hospitable?  For that is what hospitality means:  love for strangers.  Have you shown that kind of love and compassion to strangers who have crossed the pathway of your life in these past weeks?

     You see, the Word of God everywhere clearly instructs us that we must stand ready to show love to the neighbor.  We are to love God with all our heart, mind, soul, and strength; and we are to love our neighbor as ourselves.  For on these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets. 

     Our Lord Jesus Christ gave to us a parable in Luke 10 that illustrates this truth in a very vivid way.  Please open your Bibles to Luke 10 and notice with me that the context of this parable is the question of the rich young ruler who came to the Lord Jesus Christ asking, in verse 25, “Master, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?”  And when Jesus asks him what is written in the law, he points out the commandments of God.  And Jesus said, “Thou hast answered right:  this do, and thou shalt live.”  But then notice verse 29:  “But he, willing to justify himself, said unto Jesus, And who is my neighbour?” 

     Now, notice the response of our Lord Jesus Christ, verses 30-37.  In this parable, the stranger is the man who was attacked on the way from Jerusalem to Jericho.  The first passerby, deliberately identified in verse 31, is a priest who turned the other way.  The second passerby (v. 32) was a Levite who also turned the other way.  But the third one, a Samaritan (v. 33), when he came where this stranger was lying on the ground and saw him, he had compassion on him and he went to him and bound up his wounds and took care of him.

     You see, very interestingly, the man who was robbed, this one lying on the roadside, is simply introduced as a “certain man.”  It makes no difference who he is.  He is simply a stranger.  Clearly, Jesus, by means of the parable, teaches us, as He taught the lawyer in verse 27, “Go and do likewise.”  You see, there is a very important question to ask when we consider this question of loving the neighbor.  Who is my neighbor? 

     The lawyer, we read, was asking the question in verse 29 “to justify himself.”  Let it be stated clearly and emphatically.  Important as that question may be, we must be careful that we do not ask that question the way this lawyer asked it — to justify ourselves.  In other words, because we do not know who our neighbor is, therefore we cannot really love the stranger.  That is what verse 29 tells us.  He asked this question simply to justify himself.  That is why in verse 30 we read “Jesus answering, said.” 

     So we seek to understand the conversation, the parable, to see what our Lord Jesus Christ is teaching this man and us.

     We can even go back a little, to verse 25.  There was another wrong question.  It began there already.  This lawyer asked, “What shall I do to inherit eternal life?”  Notice that the lawyer asked, seeking to tempt the Lord Jesus Christ, hoping that Christ would answer contrary to the law and contrary to Moses.  But Jesus does not directly answer the question.  Instead, Jesus goes on to ask him a question:  “What is written in the law?  You should know, since you are a lawyer.”  Then, when the lawyer answered, “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, mind, soul, and strength; and love thy neighbor as thyself,” Jesus says, “Well, thou hast answered right.  This do and thou shalt live.” 

     Jesus is not teaching work righteousness.  He is not saying, “Now earn your salvation because your salvation is rooted in the law, and when you obey the law you will earn righteousness.”  No, not at all.  The lawyer was stuck because Jesus did not contradict the law.  In fact, He made this lawyer really look quite dumb.  As a lawyer, he should know the law.  But, you see, it is not that he does not know the law.  But he turns around now and says, “Yes, but I don’t know who my neighbor is.”  You see the point?  It is excuse after excuse.  One may know the letter of the law, but it must be in the heart. 

     Jesus, then, goes right to the heart and ask the right question.  Do you know what the right question to ask is?  Not “Who is my neighbor?”  But, “To whom shall I be a neighbor?”  Notice that, after giving the illustration in the parable, Jesus asks exactly that question in verse 36 of Luke 10.  “Which now of these three, thinkest thou, was neighbour unto him that fell among the thieves?”  He turns the question around:  “Who was neighbor to him who fell among the thieves?”  That is the right question to ask.  It is easy to excuse ourselves.  Because there are so many people, I do not know who to help.  I mean, where do I begin, right?  There are so many people around me.  I do not have time in a day to help everybody.  So, maybe, I end up helping nobody.  Rather, ask yourself this question:  “To whom can I be a neighbor?”  Ask “who has God placed on the pathway of my life?  And who has a need that is so apparent that I can help fulfill?”  Not, “Who is my neighbor,” but “to whom can I show true neighborliness by showing kindness?”  Then the answer to the question “Who is my neighbor” is obvious:  Everyone whom God places on the pathway of your life is your neighbor. 

     Notice, even the lawyer understood that and had to acknowledge it in response to Jesus’ question.  In verse 37 he said, “He that showed mercy on him” — the one who acted as a true neighbor.  Even he had to acknowledge that the answer to Jesus’ question was this Samaritan who stooped so low, who was so willing to stop and show mercy on the one who was in need.  Jesus says, “Go and do thou likewise.”

     Now, before we consider the call that we have to obey, let us take a few moments to look at this example.  This is the example to follow.  “A certain man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among thieves.”  We are told that Jerusalem is 2,600 feet above sea level, Jericho about 1,300 feet below sea level.  So, the road from Jerusalem (where the temple was located) to the city of Jericho was rough.  It was rocky.  It was winding.  It was a rather dangerous road for travelers going from Jerusalem to Jericho and back.  You get the picture.  Verse 31 tells us “Any by chance there came down a certain priest that way.”  Notice that when he saw this man on the ground, apparently hurt and bloodied, he simply passed by on the other side.  Why?  He was probably busy with religious duties.  He had to hurry on to the temple, I am sure.  After all, he was not a policeman.  He was not about to do some ambulatory service.  He had a ministry of mercy!  But his ministry of mercy was related to sacrifices on the altar.  He had to do official work.  He did not have time for such distractions, to go and help this stranger.  The other priests might say to him, “Come on, you know we had a meeting scheduled for such-and-such a time.  We had official work to do!”  Then what will he answer?  How could he tell them that he stopped by to help this poor man?  They might laugh at him.  They might tell him it is none of his business.  Oh, no.  He had to attend to his duties.

     Whatever his reason, verse 32 tells us “And likewise a Levite, when he was at the place, came and looked on him, and passed by on the other side.”  He was a Levite.  If he touched a dead body he would be defiled, as the Old Testament ceremonial laws said.  He must have so excused himself.  Or maybe he thought, “Well, I had better get out of here.  Those robbers might turn around and attack me instead.” 

     Whatever the reason, I point this out because, I say to you, oftentimes our thinking is more or less the same.  In fact, many times I am approached by others asking me, “Well, then, Pastor Mahtani, are you saying that we should simply stop on the road and give a ride to anybody who asks for a ride?  Are you saying that we should put ourselves and our family at danger?”  Those are legitimate questions that come up.  Are we supposed to go out and help people in this world where we might, ourselves, be endangering our own lives?  My answer to you, radio friends, is:  we must not justify ourselves.  Of course we have to make sure of our safety and the safety of our family.  Of course we have to use common sense.  And of course we should be careful that we do not necessarily put ourselves into places that are unsafe.  I think, if I today pass by someone who needs a ride, and if I fear to stop because I think that this might endanger my family, do you know what I would do?  I would remember this parable and I would think, “Wait a minute.  There is at least something I can do to help this person and yet not put myself and my family at risk.  Maybe I call 911.  Maybe I call for help.  Maybe I stop but I roll down the window just a little bit.  Maybe I do something to show concern and love for this person who is in need.”  But if there is clearly someone who is lying on the street dying, or someone who is clearly in trouble, I must be willing to consider prayerfully, “Am I simply justifying myself?  I should at least stop and pray,  O God, is this one whom You have placed in my path to help?” 

     Whatever the case, here this certain Samaritan came, and when he saw this man on the ground in pain, “He had compassion, went to him, bound his wounds, pouring in oil and wine.”  We are not told whether this certain man was a Jew or not.  Most probably he was.  From a natural point of view, there was every reason for this Samaritan to pass him by.  After all, there was mutual hatred and enmity between the Jews and the Samaritans.  And those fellow Jews (one a priest and the other a Levite) did not even stop.  But, of all things, this Samaritan was willing to turn around and help this man who, I say, probably was a Jew.  He carefully bound up the man’s wounds, cleansing them with oil and wine.  He then set the man on his donkey, and brought him to a safe place, to an inn, and even stayed overnight to take care of him.  Not that he did not have errands to run.  He had to leave the next day because he had work to do.  In fact, even at the risk to his own person, and putting aside his own busy schedule, he was willing to sacrifice even his own money and time to help this man who was completely a stranger, for he took him as a neighbor to whom he could show neighborliness.

     Further, verse 35 tells us, “On the morrow when he departed, he took out two pence, and gave them to the host, and said unto him, Take care of him.”  You see, he even assumed the financial responsibility for this overnight stay.  He did not say, “Well, see, I’ve taken all my time and energy to help you.  Now you pay for it.  Now you have to repay me.”  No, his heart was to give, his heart was to show kindness and compassion to this man in need.  And in fact he said to the innkeeper, “Whatsoever thou spendest more, when I come again, I will repay thee.” 

     That shows us another thing.  He was not just going to leave this man at the inn, he was even going to return on the way back to see whether or not this man who had been injured was completely healed.  He was going to do some follow-up work.  He was going to treat this man as a neighbor to whom he could show true neighborliness.  This man, whether Jew or not makes no difference, was a stranger to this Samaritan.  But the Samaritan was a true neighbor.  He showed true neighborliness to this man who was in need.

     Now, the last part of this parable.  Jesus says to this lawyer, and surely also to us:  “Go and do thou likewise.” 

     As we pointed out earlier, Jesus first elicited a response to the question (v. 36), “Which now of these three, thinkest thou, was neighbour unto him?”  And the lawyer said in verse 37, “He that shewed mercy on him.”  Yes, mercy.  Did you notice that, beloved?  Mercy.  That is what Jesus zeroed in on — that attribute or that virtue of love that is shown to those who are in need.  That mercy by which God Himself has elevated us to the state of blessedness when He saw us in our misery.  The point is, before Jesus issued the command, He made the man think.  Who was neighbor to him?  You excuse yourself saying, “Who is my neighbor?”  I ask you:  “Who showed himself a real neighbor to the poor man who was robbed?” 

     Then Jesus said, when He had made the point clear (and I trust that the point is made abundantly clear to you now), “Go and do likewise.”  In other words, “Go be a neighbor who is in need.  Don’t ask, Who is my neighbor?  That is the wrong question to ask.  Don’t ask, What must I do to inherit eternal life?  Eternal life is a gift.  It is not something to be merited.  Rather ask, To whom should I be a neighbor?  And thus show that eternal life is indeed abiding in you!”  For that eternal life that God has given to us is manifested in this, that we now have the love of God shed abroad in our hearts.  That is the gospel.  The gospel is that God, when He saw us in our sins and miseries, sent His Own Son to die for us on the cross, that through Jesus Christ we might have eternal life and fellowship with God.  Jesus told the lawyer not only to think but also to “Go and do likewise.” 

     Salvation is not by our works.  Salvation is not by what we do.  Of course not!  Salvation is the free gift of almighty God, that He graciously gives to whomsoever He wills.  But now, when we have the salvation of God, when we come to know how good and gracious God is to us in Jesus Christ, then that must be manifest in our lives.  For faith without works is dead, as James warns us.  Works do not save us.  Our deeds will not bring us to heaven.  Christ saves us by His death on the cross once and for all.  But now Christ works in us.  And Christ, by His Spirit, so directs us that we now, with His love shed abroad in our hearts, will love also the stranger.  We must go find that neighbor.  We must ask ourselves, “To whom can I be a neighbor?  To whom can I show true hospitality?”

     As we continue to consider the truths of God’s Word concerning this whole matter of love for the stranger, and love for the brethren, and love for our children, allow me, in the remaining minutes that we have today, to try to tie together these three aspects of our calling.

     I would like to remind you, first of all, that these three aspects of our calling (love for stranger, brother, children) are not contradictory to one another.  Think about that with me, will you, beloved?  After all, whether we love our children or love the stranger or love the brother, we do not love them out of our own strength.  We love them because God has first loved us.  And out of that love we must love our neighbor.  Our closest neighbor is really our own spouse, if we are married.  God has placed that husband or that wife in our own bedroom.  We have to love him/her.  We have those neighbors in our homes, our children.  They are there, right there within our own homes.  But, as we saw last time already from Leviticus 19, the Israelite was told to love the stranger who has come to sojourn with you, to love him as one who is born even among you.  My point is that, while we must indeed walk in love as a family and love our own children, and, yes, love the brethren, we must not think that this love for the neighbor or the stranger is something contradictory.  Not at all.  With that same love we must love those whom God is pleased to put upon the pathway of our life.

     Besides that, let us remember that when strangers are brought into our midst, God oftentimes uses the communion of the saints under the preaching of the Word.  An illustration was given to me long ago by a farmer, who said that when you put a new sheep into a sheepfold, then, if that sheep is left alone, if that sheep is not embraced by the other sheep and is not joined by the other sheep, then that sheep will pine away and die.  Whereas if in that flock there is a reception of this new sheep, then that sheep will thrive and become one with the flock.  That is my point.  Even as we learn to love one another, we must learn to extend that love to all those whom God brings upon the pathway of our life, so that in that way there is a proper balance both in our covenantal responsibilities, in our callings in the midst of the church, and in our extension to those who are strangers.

     May God bless us as today and in the weeks to come we continue to focus on this mandate of God:  Love the stranger and, as we have seen today, to ask the right questions.  Instead of justifying ourselves, we must ask, “To whom can I be a neighbor?”  When we pray tomorrow morning and start a new day, ask God:  “God, prepare me for the person You will bring on the pathway of my life.”  May God give us grace so to do and thus love the neighbor. 


Let us pray.

     Heavenly Father, we thank Thee that we might meditate on Thy Word.  We thank Thee that Thou didst love us when we were ourselves strangers and sinners, for Thou didst love us in Jesus Christ Thy Son.  Now, with His love in our hearts, help us not only to love one another and our children but also to love the neighbor for Jesus’ sake.  Amen.


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